examples: beware of the portability of flex --header-file

The option --header was introduced in version 2.5.6.
The option --header-file was introduced in version 2.6.4.
Reported by Bruno Haible.
https://lists.gnu.org/r/bug-bison/2020-05/msg00013.html

So use --header, and do bother with versions that don't support it.

* m4/flex.m4: Check whether flex supports --header.
* configure.ac (FLEX_WORKS, FLEX_CXX_WORKS): Set to false if it doesn't.
* * examples/c/reccalc/local.mk, examples/c/reccalc/Makefile:
Use --header rather than --header-file.

m4/flex.m4

@@ -41,6 +41,22 @@ else
 fi
 ])
 
+
+AC_CACHE_CHECK([whether flex supports --header=FILE],
+                [ac_cv_prog_lex_supports_header_opt],
+[if _AC_DO_VAR([LEX --header=conftest.h conftest.l]); then
+  ac_cv_prog_lex_supports_header_opt=yes
+else
+  ac_cv_prog_lex_supports_header_opt=no
+fi
+])
+if test "$ac_cv_prog_lex_supports_header_opt" = yes; then
+  FLEX_SUPPORTS_HEADER_OPT=true
+else
+  FLEX_SUPPORTS_HEADER_OPT=false
+fi
+
+
 cat >conftest.l <<_ACEOF[
 %%
 a { ECHO; }