The option --header was introduced in version 2.5.6.
The option --header-file was introduced in version 2.6.4.
Reported by Bruno Haible.
https://lists.gnu.org/r/bug-bison/2020-05/msg00013.html
So use --header, and do bother with versions that don't support it.
* m4/flex.m4: Check whether flex supports --header.
* configure.ac (FLEX_WORKS, FLEX_CXX_WORKS): Set to false if it doesn't.
* * examples/c/reccalc/local.mk, examples/c/reccalc/Makefile:
Use --header rather than --header-file.